Marriage: Pornography

In Christianity and churches were taught that porn is the new drug taking over people’s marriages.

In the real world called: “SOCIETY” people say they’d rather their husband watch porn than cheat.

Marriage classes now teach spouses how to re-find intimacy with each-other.

I think the real problem is a lack of communication.

The sex culture we now live in has made people get married based off of lust and infatuation ; rather than love and respect.

Once the hone-moon phase of a relationship or marriage is complete. Insecurities begin to ride the relationships.

What do you all think?

I personally disagree that porn destroys marriages.  I think the husband who struggles with porn addiction is the one who is used to having his sex needs met, and all of a sudden they’re not being met. I think in order to not cheat on his wife he turns to porn. The wife then catches him watching porn runs to the pastor or marital counselor with it and now it’s a big issue.

I personally do agree that porn is inappropriate and destroys lives and some people who get a hold of it turn into Ted Bundy.

To put everyone in the same category as him is extremely delusional. Especially a husband whose trying not to be unfaithful to his wife.

I think you need to analyze the situation in a whole before you jump to conclusions about your partner and his porn addiction.

Irene Mielke

Irene H. Mielke (born May 21) is a writer (ie. content writer, blogger, poet, song writer, ghost writer, soon-to-be-author). She can write just about anything. Her first poem was published in the local Ottawa newspaper at the age of 12. She has had her article featured in a Toronto magazine a few years ago. She has also won top articles for her writing pieces twice. Irene is Canadian. Her roots are of mixed heritages. Irene’s origin consists of German and Indigenous descent. Irene struggled in her teenage years and as a result became a high school drop out. Those were some difficult times. She couch surfed, lived with roommates, and so on. She sometimes slept outside while trying to go to school. It was these experiences that humbled her early in life. She eventually graduated high-school with top grades and went on to pursue higher goals. She loves to read and support others in becoming the best version of themselves. She also loves to go the gym and her favourite sport is soccer.