How Selfish Are We Really?
In recent news the singer R. Kelly who is one of the best selling artists of all times has kept making the news due to a docu-series that came out titled: “Surviving R. Kelly.” He has decades of allegations of sexual abuse. He has gone to court a few times, and been found: “Not guilty.” Recently, he was arrested due to these allegations as more and more of his victims come forwards.
He was let out on bail due to a woman who allegedly paid off his bail money. He was arrested again due to an extreme amount of unpaid child support and locked up again. He has no relationship with his children whatsoever, and hasn’t seen them in a long time according to his interview with Gayle King who is Oprahs best friend. Where is his lawyer? Usually lawyers tell you not to do interviews like that when you’re facing those kind of allegations, and dealing with those type of charges.
He currently has two girlfriends living with him who are rather young but of legal age. What on earth does a 52 year old man want with a 21 and a 23 year old? The parents continue to fight to get their daughters back. The daughters seem to be quite brainwashed and seem to want to stay with R. Kelly. Is it R. Kellys fault or is it the parents fault? There has been so much controversy around the topic and the fact that he married Aaliyah when she wasn’t even legally an adult yet. He now awaits his trial as more and more of these victims and their lawyers come forward claiming to have evidence, and it doesn’t do him justice the fact that he owes so much in Child Support. He is apparently broke and unable to pay his child support due to the fact his reputation has been tarnished and he can’t work anymore. The court of the public is not on his side.
We live in a world full of pain, heartache, and tragedy. I empathized with the pain going on around the world. It saddens me that it took this long to shed light on it, and that in 2019 society is still dealing with this type of madness. As a young woman there were a lot of things I questioned.
Years a go I actually wrote a poem regarding situations like this not knowing that R. Kelly would some day be this type of news.
How Selfish Are We Really?
Just before winter, during autumn seasons.
I try to focus on it’s beauty and understand God’s reasons.
High up above in the sky,
above my head – I watch the birds fly.
Down below, all around,
I see colourful leaves fall to the ground.
I’m contemplating God’s reasons for creation.
I’m trying to understand his purpose for salvation.
Then I’m thinking about time,
the past mistakes I’ve made, hoping I’ll pass the climb.
How I’m wishing I could rewind,
So many unanswered questions racing through my mind.
Why did the LORD create us? Why did the Lord make us?
Born into sin we all are.
Desiring to own a big house, desiring to drive a fancy car.
Unworthy of the king – we show him no grace.
Still, God gave us this world, made it a beautiful place.
You don’t believe it?
Then you’re naive about it!
If you get a chance.
Just look at the pictures of France.
Google the tourist places of Paris.
These are landmarks the world does cherish.
Why do people tell us to smile when there’s hurt all around?
Some hurt too painful. Silence where there should be sound.
Strong individuals battling with aids. Over the decades,
you’d think things would change.
Still like a statue, it remains the same.
Were selfish, we think about ourselves, forget about them, and we have no shame.
We see home after home being torn a part, just broken.
Children who are left wondering if they’re to blame as a token.
Adults not being strong enough to fight to stay together.
Parents quitting because of what they selfishly think is right, forgetting they made vows of forever.
Teen suicides are increasing – Not enough ceasing.
Instead the world cares more to focus on the gossip of Kevin and Britney.
Instead the world wants to know who else is as talented as Whitney?
There’s a girl living like Cinderella living on minimum wage with her mop.
Stop re-victimizing victims like the pain is their fault.
Why do you only want to live for an applause?
Look around there’s children being abused.
Beat up, nobody cares that they’re being left with memories of how they were bruised.
People are getting raped.
The world’s too caught up to help them escape.
Inside these people are in pain ; stuck with wounds they can’t heal.
You say it’s not true because they won’t make an appeal?
Well, Shut Up for a second, and put yourself in their place.
Pretend to be them, and then try showing your face.
Try talking about the pain that took years for you to talk about.
Stand up in front of that court, and why don’t you just shout it out!
Let your story be heard ; meanwhile they put it on the news.
For the whole world to know how you were used.
Tabloids just want to gossip ; you’re humiliated now right?
So don’t talk shit because silently they battle the fight!
Do you have fears – maybe thunder?
Ever think about the pressure these victims are under?
Now you’re donating to charities thinking it’s enough.
You’re forgetting these peoples stories ; money can’t buy them love.
You could give them a one-hundred dollar bill.
You could donate them all your stuff in your unwritten will.
That will never take back their pain.
Just a donation won’t stop the rain.
Why don’t we want to face it,
just because were not the ones who embrace it?
Their pain they go through every day.
Instead of helping them – we stray…far far away.
Extremely selfish, and paranoid. We all hide.
We complain about the little things like the cold.
We fear the future like we’ll never make it – never grow old.
When we look outside we see so much devastation.
Even when our problems our small ; we show no appreciation.
How did the world get this way?
I’m sure you’ll come up with some cliche.
Change starts with us ; we need to own up to our own imperfectons.
We need to focus on our future in a new direction.
Together : may we unite as one?
God didn’t give us a life to make it fun.
God gave us hardships to test our faith, and make us strong.
He didn’t put his people on this earth to belong.
That’s why many were called ; few were chosen.
How come when were called to be a witness – were frozen?
My heart has always been huge and I always questioned people in positions of power. I always questioned if they were in it for the right reasons. I was never attracted to the outside of someone, but there are many people who are. It’s so easy for someone to prey on the most vulnerable when they have that type of power.
We need to find a way to come together, support each-other, support victims, uplift eachother, and spread love. We need to help eachother heal. We need to educate each-other.
My prayers are with all those who are suffering, and dealing with things they’re unable to heal from. I pray they find the strength to rise above all the odds, and to be success stories despite all the obstacles that were thrown at them.